When Charla Muller told her friends what she was giving her husband Brad for his 40th birthday, she was met with a variety of responses - none remotely positive. One thought she might have been going through a mid-life crisis of her own when she came up with the idea. Another questioned her sanity, and yet another asked bluntly: 'Were you drunk when you thought of this? What on earth could the gift have been? A particularly hideous pair of cufflinks that light up in the dark? A speedboat so expensive that it required selling the house?
Be a man of God.
Could you make love to your husband every day for a year?
When talking with married men -- men in their 20s, 30s and 40s -- it's clear that what they like and want from sex changes as their marriages mature. There is a progression to the way they think about lovemaking. These transitions can be gradual, surprising both husband and wife when stumbled upon, or they can be sudden, transforming their lovemaking into something remarkable and new. Here's a peek at the evolution of male sexual pleasure, of what deepens and endures in a man's bed and head even as wedding anniversaries pass. The Elements of His Desire What makes your husband desire you year after year, when he's so used to seeing you walk around naked? And if she's in lingerie, she'd better hope our baby starts crying or the telephone rings, because I consider that an open taunt.
Eliminate Major Sin.
My husband brings me my favorite cookies from the grocery store. He gets me flowers. He gives me foot rubs. He takes me on drives to enjoy the fall colors. He does these things not out of a sense of obligation. He does them simply because he knows they make me feel deeply loved. I make him meatloaf.
This article is not exactly about sex, guys. But in reality you do get more sex by loving your wife more by making her feel cherished. This is all about how to improve your marriage, and to be the man of her dreams. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. See: Ephesians