Please refresh the page and retry. Through a hobby group I've now met someone special and we want to have sex. I'm now worried I might be mistaken about myself. Can you help me explain this to him? I can try and help you explain this to him, although I wonder if it is really worth your time. Besides, there is something far more important I want you to hold on to.
Please refresh the page and retry. Mostly just like this. My advice to everyone is read these wise words from Scarleteen :. What is your personal definition of virginity? Most of us might guess it means the first time someone has penis in vagina penetrative sex. Or being confused about whether being sexual is compatible with being virginal. You cannot tell if someone has had sex or not based on any physical examination, or how they look, or act. Maybe you wish to appear sexually confident and experienced but are afraid your partner will guess this is all new to you. Some people contact me because they are considering getting a virginity test done on their bride-to-be, or their child.
You can change your city from here. We serve personalized stories based on the selected city. Refrain from posting comments that are obscene, defamatory or inflammatory, and do not indulge in personal attacks, name calling or inciting hatred against any community. Help us delete comments that do not follow these guidelines by marking them offensive. Let's work together to keep the conversation civil. Losing virginity is a huge issue, especially in a country like ours. After your first sexual intercourse, you may have plenty of concerns about your body. Here are some of them:. Since the vagina is still getting used to this new activity you have introduced to your body, it takes some time for the vagina to become used to penetration.